We've been appreciating Brene Brown's book "Daring Greatly - How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead"
At the end of the book she provides this Wholehearted Parenting Manifesto.

The recent AFCC Think Tank of 32 family law experts resulted in a table of considerations for determining post-separation overnight care of children aged 0-3 years. 

The table is reproduced on the last page of this document and is available online at http://www.afccnet.org/Resource-Center/Center-for-Excellence-in-Family-Court-Practice/ctl/ViewCommittee/CommitteeID/27/mid/495

The table is a handy tool to assist in the assessment of individual families. Although its not easy to navigate, it does respect the developmental needs of infants and the unique dynamics of a family system. I am very concerned however by introductory clause number 3 at the top of the document...


Download the file for the rest of my reflections on this important issue.

Dawson

Sharon is in planning to facilitate a 1-day retreat for women later in the year. It will offer a safe space to gather with other mothers, reflect on what matters most to us, including values and vision, challenges and fears. It will be a place where we honour each others differences and connect with other women that are also embracing the challenge of parenting. If this interests you, send me an email and I will update you with more details nearer to November.  [email protected]

Also, check out the Courage to Lead Retreat (Daring Greatly) happening in September

Have a listen and tell me your response. Agree or disagree?

Do you feel stuck in habits or neighbourhoods where play isn't happening?

We have tried and tested all sorts of initiatives to create a more playful neighbourhood. 
Home-schooling, nature play, neighbourhood gardens, markets, picnics, parties, movies, camps and play-overs... we have had a lot of fun getting to know our neighbours! It takes time and wont pay the mortgage, but the friendships and freedom our children have enjoyed has been priceless. 
To be honest it wasn't an easy transition. The first thing to change was my head space. Cultivating bucket-loads of curiosity and playfulness - and letting go of a tidy house and the fear of being left behind in the career race. It hasn't just been the children who have benefitted. 

Congratulations!
Meet up at a relaxing venue and a chat about the changes ahead